On the final day, IQ left the praying session halfway without informing us. Then goes on to stay out the whole nite without letting any of the rest of us knows that she is not coming back to sleep. She travelled with my mum leh, is it not only proper that she should at least sms my mum to let my mum knows she staying overnite outside?Maybe if we didn't wait for her until so late, cos we thought she no keys, we wouldn't have been so mad.
Then next morning she came back, saw us, she very shocked (cos she thought we slept in the temple). when I questioned her, she replied:" I didn't know you all come home to sleep." O.o What kind of freaking answer is tat? Does it mean, if we dunno she slept outside then she hasn't done anything wrong?And even if we sleep in temple, she still should have let one of us know, if not my mum, that she not coming home to sleep. Am I rite? or I'm just being particular? Cos she came to Singapore with us mah, if anything happened to her, ppl will surely questioned my mother what.
Then hor, i told her: You should apologise to my mum for making her worried whole nite. She just keeps quiet and UNTIL TODAY, she never even say SORRY to my mum. Egoistic biatch.
Then after the retreat, the temple got organise dinner to thank the sifus mah. So asked us to get invitation card to reserve seat, dun overbook or underbook, cos dun wan to waste unnecessary resources. Then one day before the dinner I asked :Everyone going to dinner? No answer means yes. She kept quiet never say anything. So of course we all presume she going mah. Rite? Then 3 hours before dinner, she said:" I not going hor, u all go by yourselves." WAT THEEEEEEEEEEE, i tell u i was so angry I scolded her on spot, a bit rough actualy but who cares: I said: YOu should have told us yesterday mah. Why you like that one? She said: What? no problem wat, only me one person, as if will affect. I shot her back: yeah if every table 1 person not coming then how many food will be wasted? she said: but now only me waht, not every table,I already make appt with my friend yesterday. (tat means she could have say no yesterday rite?)Apparently she dun understand the concept, and to think she keep telling everyone: I'm a perfectionist, I'm smarter than everyone, I'm perfect. F*** her perfect brain, she is practically the most stupid human beings I ever met in my whole life. one word: SELFISH
then on the day we going back hometown, I asked her: IQ, we booking cab at 4pm. You can make it with us? or u wanna go by urself? She said: Yes I can I will be home before 4pm. Then we asked my SG auntie to book the maxi cab lor. then hor, as usual, bitches dun learn from experience, she sms me 3 hours before saying she going by herself, not coming with us.
then the ultimatum is this: yesterday my mother got pass her my bro's jacket to be brought home. If her bag is full, she could have just tell us and we could have arrange someone else to bring it home. Cos the jacket needs to be pass to another person to bring to Melbourne.But no, she accept with a smile and my mom saw her put in her bag. Then when we reached hometown already then she told my mum WITH A SMILE:I left the jacket in Sg, I didn't bring it with me. NOT EVEN A SINGLE "sorry". OH MY GODDDDDDDDD< can someone please tell me if she is really crazy or she if just out to make my mum angry? I was so mad, cos my mum cried and called me. I felt like killing her. Someone please pass me a knife that can goes thru phoneline.
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
My disastrous retreat T.T
As you all may have known, I have "check out" from my 1-week religious retreat.
What was suppossed to be a wonderful, relaxing and calming retreat turns into horrible, nerve-wrecking and patient-tolerancing experience for me and a few of my other family members.
Just so you all can understand our frustration, I will have to explain several rules and how it works during the retreat.
We have praying/offering session whole day morning to night, just small breaks in between for rest and meals. Meals mainly only half hour to one hour max. And there's like 400 people with only 12 tables. Time is of great essence here. It's a 1st come 1st serve basis, no reserving seats for people.
There are 6 of us from my family lah, my mum, auntie with her daughter(Agal), my "wonderful" sis-in-law (here on named Imitation Queen,"IQ") and my cousin's wife (let's call her "Bgal")
Our IQ bitch starts to show her horns and tails on the 3rd day. 3rd day we start the session at 2am in the morning. So we have our breakfast at 5am that day. Because my mum and auntie sit on the front row, (seatings are based on the amount of money you donated for this particular event), they already told us beforehand to come out as fast as possible. So guess what? our IQ bitch somehow got lost while we making our way out. Apparently she was walking so slow that she got left behind. So we have to go find her lah. When we finally found her, she said: oh I dun wan to eat, u guys eat urselves." ok fine, nevermind, though we would have appreciated it if she could bloody tell us while we still inside, after all she was just sitting next to me, only 2cm gap between us?-.- (and of cos my mum reprimanded us for being so late to the eating table, and she innocently say: I dunno, I told them I dun wan to eat already" WHAT THE FUCK, she told us only after we wasted 15minutes looking for her man. *sigh* (patient, patient I keep telling myself)
Then there was a day when we 4 young ones lazy lah, skip 1 short praying session. This session is directly before lunch. So 10 minutes before lunchtime, we go down and sit on the table first lor, just waiting for my mum and auntie. And each table can take 10 ppl, if not full you are not allowed to start eating. (tats the rule too) At this point, because of the increasing number of ppl attending the sessions, the temple organised for another room at the back of the temple filled with just 10 tables for meals, it's like buffet style, u queue take food, no seat stand and eat. Fast but not as comfy lah. So we sit and wait, then hor, apparently my mum and auntie feels its faster for them to eat at the back and they went on without letting us know lor. In the end Bgal found out about it and told us:" we can just eat, ur mum and auntie finished eating liao at the back". At that moment, there was another auntie (my mum's friend) with her daughthers on the table too. So we are about to start eating lah, then u know wat? The crazy IQ without saying anything, stands up and walks away from the table. We are like: O.O
Asked her where she going: she said she wanna accompany my mum at the back to eat. take note: 1. My mum they all finished eating liao. 2. we only have 15 minutes left to eat. 3. If she leaves her seat last minute, where to find a replacement? since the rest have moved on to the back thinking no more seats liao. She basically dun care if we can't start eating cos she moved out suddenly. I was like FUCK FUCK BIATCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhh
The auntie also shocked, she said to me: Your mum will scold her if she dun eat with her is it?" I was too shocked to answer her, lucky Bgal quick thinking answered: Nope, My auntie not that kind of person, this girl is just crazy, dunno wat she thinks." I felt like, she must have been giving others the impression that we are oppressing her. urgggh i felt like slapping her there and then i tell u. Considering u gals didn't see how she easily walked away with a weak smile on her face as if she is not doing anything wrong.Man she should just go be an actress, why the hell she marry my brother?
Then got one morning, we went back home to sleep, cos temple not enough water to use for bathing. So in the morning the session starts at 8am. We have to wake early mah, all of us wakes up at 6 and finished ready to go at 7am. We woke her up at 6am too, she refused to and only wake up at 7,30am. then she still slowly slowly bath, PUT ON MAKE UP(i dun understand for wat, we are going to retreat leh) then my auntie chase her she said: U all go first lor, I will follow up. In the end we just leave her behind. Cos we can't stand she speak as if nothing wrong. from then on, my auntie said: We are not ever going to wait for her already, i dun care if she told the others we left her behind on purpose or wat.
To be continued........
However I do learn a lot from this experience, overall it's a rewarding retreat, would have been perfect if the bitch is not around.
What was suppossed to be a wonderful, relaxing and calming retreat turns into horrible, nerve-wrecking and patient-tolerancing experience for me and a few of my other family members.
Just so you all can understand our frustration, I will have to explain several rules and how it works during the retreat.
We have praying/offering session whole day morning to night, just small breaks in between for rest and meals. Meals mainly only half hour to one hour max. And there's like 400 people with only 12 tables. Time is of great essence here. It's a 1st come 1st serve basis, no reserving seats for people.
There are 6 of us from my family lah, my mum, auntie with her daughter(Agal), my "wonderful" sis-in-law (here on named Imitation Queen,"IQ") and my cousin's wife (let's call her "Bgal")
Our IQ bitch starts to show her horns and tails on the 3rd day. 3rd day we start the session at 2am in the morning. So we have our breakfast at 5am that day. Because my mum and auntie sit on the front row, (seatings are based on the amount of money you donated for this particular event), they already told us beforehand to come out as fast as possible. So guess what? our IQ bitch somehow got lost while we making our way out. Apparently she was walking so slow that she got left behind. So we have to go find her lah. When we finally found her, she said: oh I dun wan to eat, u guys eat urselves." ok fine, nevermind, though we would have appreciated it if she could bloody tell us while we still inside, after all she was just sitting next to me, only 2cm gap between us?-.- (and of cos my mum reprimanded us for being so late to the eating table, and she innocently say: I dunno, I told them I dun wan to eat already" WHAT THE FUCK, she told us only after we wasted 15minutes looking for her man. *sigh* (patient, patient I keep telling myself)
Then there was a day when we 4 young ones lazy lah, skip 1 short praying session. This session is directly before lunch. So 10 minutes before lunchtime, we go down and sit on the table first lor, just waiting for my mum and auntie. And each table can take 10 ppl, if not full you are not allowed to start eating. (tats the rule too) At this point, because of the increasing number of ppl attending the sessions, the temple organised for another room at the back of the temple filled with just 10 tables for meals, it's like buffet style, u queue take food, no seat stand and eat. Fast but not as comfy lah. So we sit and wait, then hor, apparently my mum and auntie feels its faster for them to eat at the back and they went on without letting us know lor. In the end Bgal found out about it and told us:" we can just eat, ur mum and auntie finished eating liao at the back". At that moment, there was another auntie (my mum's friend) with her daughthers on the table too. So we are about to start eating lah, then u know wat? The crazy IQ without saying anything, stands up and walks away from the table. We are like: O.O
Asked her where she going: she said she wanna accompany my mum at the back to eat. take note: 1. My mum they all finished eating liao. 2. we only have 15 minutes left to eat. 3. If she leaves her seat last minute, where to find a replacement? since the rest have moved on to the back thinking no more seats liao. She basically dun care if we can't start eating cos she moved out suddenly. I was like FUCK FUCK BIATCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhh
The auntie also shocked, she said to me: Your mum will scold her if she dun eat with her is it?" I was too shocked to answer her, lucky Bgal quick thinking answered: Nope, My auntie not that kind of person, this girl is just crazy, dunno wat she thinks." I felt like, she must have been giving others the impression that we are oppressing her. urgggh i felt like slapping her there and then i tell u. Considering u gals didn't see how she easily walked away with a weak smile on her face as if she is not doing anything wrong.Man she should just go be an actress, why the hell she marry my brother?
Then got one morning, we went back home to sleep, cos temple not enough water to use for bathing. So in the morning the session starts at 8am. We have to wake early mah, all of us wakes up at 6 and finished ready to go at 7am. We woke her up at 6am too, she refused to and only wake up at 7,30am. then she still slowly slowly bath, PUT ON MAKE UP(i dun understand for wat, we are going to retreat leh) then my auntie chase her she said: U all go first lor, I will follow up. In the end we just leave her behind. Cos we can't stand she speak as if nothing wrong. from then on, my auntie said: We are not ever going to wait for her already, i dun care if she told the others we left her behind on purpose or wat.
To be continued........
However I do learn a lot from this experience, overall it's a rewarding retreat, would have been perfect if the bitch is not around.
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
baby close brush to death
A few days ago I was back in my hometown visiting family.
There's this 1 night, where I'm supposed to be enjoying nice dinner outside with my family which didn't happen.
A sudden ear-piercing, soul-shattering scream was heard from my brother's room. Actually it sounded more like a witch's screaming. ^^;;
So I rush out from my room to see what's going on. What I saw shocked me so much I lost my voice for a minute. My sis-in-law was holding her baby and screaming so horridly in his face and putting 3 fingers down his small tiny throat. I couldn't register what was going on until the pitiful crying of her baby jolted me back to reality.
After finding out that she has given her baby a gummy bear candy and he has choked on it, I quickly tell her to stop poking his tiny throat. I mean: the baby is crying already for goodness sake, of cos he's no longer choking on it rite? Am I rite? Or she's too shocked to realise that?
Anyway I managed to get her to stop after a few tries. Then when we questioned her: how could you give a candy to a baby? We told u how many times already. She replied: I didn't give him, he snatched it from my hand.
Just so u know the baby only 1yr 3mths old. If a baby can act faster than an adult, HOLY COW, that adult must either be retard or handicapped. ( note: I do not look down or is biased towards any of the mentioned)
And of course, we fierced the maid questioning her: why she let it happened? She replied softly in tears, and shakingly :madam give not me, madam give not me. (at the same time pointing to my sis-in-law. >.<
........ case closed. >.<
There's this 1 night, where I'm supposed to be enjoying nice dinner outside with my family which didn't happen.
A sudden ear-piercing, soul-shattering scream was heard from my brother's room. Actually it sounded more like a witch's screaming. ^^;;
So I rush out from my room to see what's going on. What I saw shocked me so much I lost my voice for a minute. My sis-in-law was holding her baby and screaming so horridly in his face and putting 3 fingers down his small tiny throat. I couldn't register what was going on until the pitiful crying of her baby jolted me back to reality.
After finding out that she has given her baby a gummy bear candy and he has choked on it, I quickly tell her to stop poking his tiny throat. I mean: the baby is crying already for goodness sake, of cos he's no longer choking on it rite? Am I rite? Or she's too shocked to realise that?
Anyway I managed to get her to stop after a few tries. Then when we questioned her: how could you give a candy to a baby? We told u how many times already. She replied: I didn't give him, he snatched it from my hand.
Just so u know the baby only 1yr 3mths old. If a baby can act faster than an adult, HOLY COW, that adult must either be retard or handicapped. ( note: I do not look down or is biased towards any of the mentioned)
And of course, we fierced the maid questioning her: why she let it happened? She replied softly in tears, and shakingly :madam give not me, madam give not me. (at the same time pointing to my sis-in-law. >.<
........ case closed. >.<
Intro
Hi gals,
finally got my blog up and running too.
Just a short intro so u gals know who I am.
the fat, nothing to do, yet always seem busy friend of urs :p
My identity is to be secret, for what I'm going to write is
BASED ON TRUE STORY.........
And also hor, my english deteriorating ah, if got any misrepresentation, please forgive your humble servant.
Freaktwit (you may call me by this name from henceforth) :p
finally got my blog up and running too.
Just a short intro so u gals know who I am.
the fat, nothing to do, yet always seem busy friend of urs :p
My identity is to be secret, for what I'm going to write is
BASED ON TRUE STORY.........
And also hor, my english deteriorating ah, if got any misrepresentation, please forgive your humble servant.
Freaktwit (you may call me by this name from henceforth) :p
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